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What's a trait you look for in potential partners that seems uniquely in your trait wishlist? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 month ago by CraigOhMyEggo@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] qocu@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I like that the person doesn't go to restaurants and hates them as much as I do, since years ago I decided to stop going to restaurants, so I understand that it can be a problem in a relationship.

[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Where do you go instead?

[–] qocu@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago

In case I have a date with someone, I cook something for them. If someone else will cook for me, it's because they want to and are not forced to.

Since I stopped going to restaurants, I started having picnics (I had never had one before). The food is healthier, the atmosphere is calmer, everything is better.