I love seeing "aggressively LGBTQ inclusive" tankies bend over backwards to support a literal homophobic fascist dictatorship and parrot their talking points.
Paralda
I used RIF for 12 years and I think Thunder is pretty close. The only thing it's really missing for me is better comment navigation.
I actually really enjoy the gesture upvoting it has, and it's very customizable. The debs are super active and responsive on github and matrix too.
Season 1 was pretty good, but after that it went downhill quick
I'd also kill for default comment sorting, if you're taking requests.
I started using Linux desktops at work around 5 or 6 years ago, and even since then, the experience has improved greatly.
I've been on various distros with KDE over the past couple of years, but from what I've seen in passing, Gnome "just works" really well with most distros that use it. KDE requires some tweaking occasionally, but since 5.27, it's been rock solid for me, and the KDE team seems really dedicated to making Plasma 6 stable and easy to use.
You might want to fire up a VM or throw Ubuntu on an old laptop and see how it feels. It really has gotten a lot better for the average user, and something like Mint, imo, is really easy to pick up and just use.
Personally, I really like customization, and I work as a DevOps engineer (formerly linux sysadmin), so I don't mind getting really deep into the OS if necessary. But I don't think you have to if you want to have a good experience.
Unfortunate, but to be fair, things have changed a lot in 20 years.
There are definitely still angry linux nerds on forums, but I think the experience is a lot more streamlined.
They upgraded
I really hope journalists stop called IBM Red Hat. Red Hat is dead.