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& I’m doing pretty good! The wefwef app has done a great job of recreating the Apollo experience and has made it a lot easier to not want to go and download the Reddit app. The more active it gets here, the easier it’ll be. How are you guys doing so far? Have you found an App for Lemmy that you prefer the most yet?

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[–] depressed_submissive@lemmy.fmhy.ml 275 points 1 year ago (27 children)

Still trying to find my footings. The thing I miss most is active engagement. The comment sections sometimes feel so empty. But I will give it time. All in all, I find the experience better than I anticipated. Using wefwef on my phone and the instance-site on my desktop and laptop. I am sure a decent app will be developed in time.

[–] pezmaker@sh.itjust.works 129 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I felt that at first but I've found the engagement to be more meaningful here when it does happen, even though it's sometimes sparse or not at all. I came in the previous influx after spez started forcing subs open. I don't really miss it that much now.

[–] ArcheryCole@lemmy.world 111 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I was pretty much a strict lurker on Reddit, so the smaller community here is certainly a bit of a change for me. Only thing for me to do is to change my habits with it, and start actually joining in and adding to the conversations.

[–] KuchiKopi@lemmy.world 61 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Howdy!

In recognition of your contribution to the community, I present you with the coveted Lemmy Lemon award.

🍋

[–] adamantris@lemmy.world 34 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Please let's make the Lemmy Lemon award an unofficially official thing. After reading that I want people to use it more

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[–] Bushwhack@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago (3 children)
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[–] kfj55@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago

As a former reddit lurker, I like the more low-key engagement here. It feels more welcoming.

[–] WorldlyIntrospection@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You have summed up my feelings exactly.

Greetings, fellow lurker! The torch has been passed. It is our turns to carry it until the communities grow larger and we can recede back to the shadows

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[–] adamantris@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago (15 children)

I also didn't even bother engaging on Reddit at all, but doing so on Lemmy feels way more worth it for some reason

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[–] SpaceToast@mander.xyz 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

One thing I certainly don’t miss from Reddit is the top voted comment is always some lame pun or some tired phrase that has been repeated a thousand times before.

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[–] sudo@lemmy.fmhy.ml 45 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I've found myself actually reading articles since I can't go in and just read someone else's synopsis of the content, which frankly is a good thing. I can get my own information and form my own opinions, Reddit just let me be lazy but it's a nice change.

As for engagement, just be the change your wish to see, and engagement will follow. I think there is still some fine tuning to be done in terms of the sorting algorithms as well, which would ideally get day old content out and active but fresh content in. A lot of dust left to settle with the great migration underway.

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[–] SpezCanLigmaBalls@lemmy.world 33 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Remember to be commenting on stuff that don’t have comments to drive engagement! It’s important for all of us to do our part

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[–] awderon@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago (8 children)

I sort by new mostly and if I find something interesting I write a comment trying to startup some conversations. The more people do this, the faster the community will grow.

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[–] Tanel@lemmy.world 89 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Mlem and Memmy are quite tolerable

[–] HolyDiver@lemmy.world 45 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I tried both but decided to go with memmy, but each are great choices.

[–] CoffeePooPoo@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yeah I’m loving Memmy. The new update has been great.

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[–] hamsalamibacon@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago

Same. Both have their quirks but Memmy seems more polished overall.

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[–] ekZepp@lemmy.world 51 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (12 children)

Liftoff app is my favorite at the moment. Very responsive and handle well multiple account.

[–] iamcent@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[–] heliumlake@lemmy.world 47 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I'm very happy this space is flourishing. Lots of organic conversation and increased engagement. My only hope is that this revolt against corporate social media will be sustained. I would love to see this turn in to an existential threat to the companies selling our data and privacy to the highest-bidding advertiser.

[–] thawed_caveman@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago (6 children)

The fediverse faces structural issues of its own, but they're different issues than corporate social media, which gives me a lot of hope that they can outlive them. I really want Lemmy and Mastodon to become the norm, they would be much healthier online spaces for everyone.

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[–] Hyrulian@lemmy.world 38 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Hello fell Reddit Refugees! Yeah I've been a near daily reddit user on Sync for Reddit (Sync Pro) since 2014 or so. Now leading up to the API shutdown I was using reddit about once a week and you already know I had to use Sync one last time on the final day, but

I've mostly been using Lemmy for about two weeks now. I've tried a lot of apps (Jeroba, Thunder, Liftoff), but ultimately I also ended up on wefwef. It's seems to be the one of snappier ones so far. It's super strange because since it is themed after Apollo, it looks like I have an iPhone app on my Android! I know that when Sync for Lemmy comes out (about six weeks I think) I'll jump ship immediately, but for now I'm really liking wefwef.

I've made it my mission to lurk less on Lemmy then I did on Reddit so I can try and help the platform succeed with some small amounts of content that I can contribute. Recently I've been very interested in AI image generation, so I made a community centered around that. I also made a community centered around video game giveaways to hopefully share more wholesome content on the platform. Overall, I'm hoping that since Lemmy is so new that all of us can take some control in steering it in an overall better direction than Reddit. I'm personally on team No Karma, since I think it makes Lemmy a lot less toxic and a lot less about having something to brag about and more about being something to be proud of.

Good luck to everyone who's a recovering Reddit addict with their quests to become Fediverse addicts!

Edit: Wefwef accidentally posted my comment 3 times saying it failed to post. So I guess there's still some kinks to work out!

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[–] donut4ever@lemmy.world 34 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's crazy how addictive social media is.

[–] HappyHam@lemm.ee 16 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Seriously. I feel like I'm going a bit crazy trying to migrate myself to Lemmy while waiting for Boost for Reddit to stop working. Internet forum style social media should never induce this sort of anxiety.

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[–] Mojeezy@lemmy.world 32 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I am also using wefef and was an Apollo user. I have an overall positive experience with Lemmy+wefwef.

It feels buggy when scrolling and switching between panes (post,search, etc) but I can live with that since I know it’s a work in progress.

Like one of the top posts today (the meme with Patrick and his rock). “It’s ok Lemmy. You can go when you want.”

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[–] G0nzo@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It is quite sad and yet at the same time also an exciting time. I was on Reddit for 9 years and it has kind of become the internet for me.

I myself was 99% only a passive user, so I have contributed nothing to the value of the site. But the site itself had a lot to offer for me.

But I also realized that Reddit, the platform itself, hardly provides anything relevant.

I probably would never have used Reddit much without a 3rd party app, I also use it exclusively on mobile.

For me, the value of the site comes exclusively from the content, i.e. the community. And fortunately, that's something Reddit has no direct control over.

I realize, of course, that not everyone will be here now in 6 months instead of on Reddit, but it doesnt matter.

I think the majority of users are like me rather passive, but more important are the active users of the community.

It is much more important to have these pillars of the community on board, as they will sooner or later ensure that something new is created that will then attract the larger number of passive users.

And I think it's this usergroup that has angered Reddit for the most part. These are power users who probably all use 3rd party apps.

Nevertheless, many will of course stay, if you have put a lot of work and heart and soul into building up your community/subreddit for years, letting go is of course much harder than for someone like me.

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[–] Doherz@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago (10 children)

I knew I had an issue with the amount of time I spent on Reddit.

But good lord the repeated opening of Reddit Sync to no avail over the past days really driven home just how much I just defaulted to Reddit in any dead time.

[–] Fezz@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I had to delete RIF because of how many times I just get auto opening it.

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[–] kromem@lemmy.world 28 points 1 year ago

It'll be nice if more and more migrate over.

There's something amusing about opening up what's almost a Reddit clone a day after and seeing content and subs that would have been exactly like it was on Reddit here instead.

As long as momentum continues, we may see more and more leaving Reddit for what's nearly the same thing with a lot less BS.

I just hope Lemmy servers and infrastructure can handle the growing popularity, especially once there's popular native clients that switch from Reddit to it.

Would be very happy if spez ends up having killed his own platform in future retrospection though.

[–] Stefh@lemmy.world 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm loving the fediverse. I have to thank Reddit to make me discovering it!

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[–] LeHappStick@lemmy.world 27 points 1 year ago (9 children)

Is Lemmy.World a bit laggy for everyone else?

I wonder is it on my end or is it because of the new traffic it's getting?

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[–] WorldlyIntrospection@lemmy.world 23 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Keep at it! I suspect these first few days will be the hardest. I uninstalled BaconReader last night and put "Connect for Lemmy" in its place on my home screen. So far it's been a pretty easy transition!

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[–] kescusay@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago

I desperately miss RIF, and I have a community I care about on Reddit that I mod.

But I'm going to see if I can rebuild it here. I think Reddit has basically committed suicide.

[–] Digester@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Yeah Lemmy seems the way forward. It just sucks for all the subs that won't be making it here anytime soon. Niche subs I'm following for example, I'll still have to rely on Reddit.

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[–] itadakimasu@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago (4 children)

95% of posts that contain active discussion and more than 3 comments are about Lemmy and/or Reddit implosion. I would love to see a pivot to more engagement in other subjects. I do enjoy reading about lemmy and participating in the discussion, but would be good to see the users disperse a little bit :)

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[–] MrShelbySan@lemmy.world 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)

For some reason, wefwef was very buggy for me and kept throwing errors at me.

I use Memmy and I’ll probably stick with it!

[–] simo@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago (8 children)

It just had an update that fixed it, something to do with lemmy.world’s recent update.

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[–] ferne@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago (17 children)

Honestly, I'm pretty excited about being a "pioneer" (sorry to those who have been here for longer). I never commented much on Reddit, but plan to contribute more here.

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[–] mfigueiredo@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago (3 children)

15 year club on reddit. I've parted a few weeks ago and not coming back.

I hope lemmy gets good and better content.

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[–] obinice@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago (5 children)

So far Jerboa has been the best one for me, I tried wefwef but wasn't a big fan (and couldn't work out how to uncensor NSFW content across the board, very annoying haha).

But Boost is coming out at some point! I'm really looking forward to it!! <3

So far I'm doing okay, just tough with how slow everything runs and all the network errors and stuff, but it's early days so I'm patient :-)

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[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Its been one day without Reddit

It's been one week since you looked at me, cocked your head to the side and said, "I'm angry."

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[–] drekly@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (6 children)

As a new user, I'm finding it weird how everything seems so fragmented. Why join a [...subreddit] (what are they called here?) on one channel/server rather than another? Surely it just breaks up the user base and makes it harder to have everyone in one place.

Also, I find it weird how everything is on different servers from a user point of view - where do I make my account? I made mine on Lemmy.world, but what if I should be somewhere else?

The apps help slightly, but there's still confusion with local/all and seeing the server everything is hosted on.

I feel like it's a difficult sell to the more casual user and will make it much harder to have Lemmy as a true successor to Reddit.

There needs to be a way to obfuscate this information to a casual user and have an account in one place, with 'subreddits' in one place, so Lemmy is just Lemmy and you only learn more about the infrastructure if you want to.

Not trying to sound trite, but you’ll get used to it fast. I’ve been here since the day the protests started and haven’t been back to Reddit since. Watching this community grow by leaps and bounds over 3 weeks has been amazing and wonderful.

Don’t worry about which instance you’re on, it’s largely unimportant except in extreme cases (such as the nazi edge lord instance that just got defederated from the lemmy.world instance).

Spend a few minutes going through the communities list and subscribe to everything that interests you even a little bit. Bam, there’s your front page. Now sit back and enjoy higher quality discussions and content than that other place has had in a while. And it gets better every day.

[–] morelikepinniped@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You're not wrong, but as someone who has mostly adapted to the fediverse in the last 2 weeks after 15 years on Reddit, I remember a time when reddit was considered too complicated for the "casual" user. Lemmy is in its infancy right now and I think if one is the kind of person who is an early adopter, it will be very appealing to be in the first stages of the journey. I found my early years on Reddit to be much more rewarding and filled with joy than my later years because it felt more niche and close-knit in a way.

Also, subreddits are called communities here and you should join as many as are of interest! Just like a user could create multiple competing subreddits (looking at you /r/meirl, /r/me_irl, /r/2meirl4meirl), the good ones will take off and others may die off, or might just add additional content to the pool, which is a good thing.

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[–] littlecolt@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Using Connect for Lemmy and loving it. I'm not that much of a social media addict, but I would check reddit using Baconreader once daily for news and politics and cat pictures. Speaking of which, the number of cat communities on here is way too low, but I also think a lot of the cat subs on Reddit were like 75% repost bots. I still enjoyed them.

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[–] AssPennies@lemmy.one 16 points 1 year ago

Have you found an App for Lemmy that you prefer the most yet?

I'm using firefox on desktop and the UI looks awesome, no RES necessary.

One of the most impressive things to me: I've got ublock origin up and there are zero things being blocked! I'm so jaded of the years that I expect every website to have something blocked.

[–] Semb@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago

The internet seems fresh for a fleeting moment

[–] Amazed@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago

I visited Reddit for 16 years. RIF on android then Slide on iOS. Slow to learn how Lemmy works.

Guess I shouldn’t be surprised the site’s burned. But it’s an adjustment - with how often I check my (now broken) app mindlessly, I actually think the scummy CEO did me a favor!

Wefwef as a web app is really really good. I’m also enjoying liftoff! App for iOS.

[–] smoll_pp_operator@vlemmy.net 16 points 1 year ago (14 children)

I'm enjoying Connect for Lemmy, however I need pointers on how to get more content for my lemmy front page.

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