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Iโ€™m a 30 year old woman whoโ€™s only really played card and puzzle games on my phone. Im considering new hobbies. Is it worth trying to get into video games for the first time. Where would I even start.

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[โ€“] ramenshaman@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Steam would be a great place to start. Tons of games, many of them free. If you're willing to buy some hardware, getting a Switch would be a good bet. Lots of excellent games, many of them are beginner-friendly.

As much as I hate Nintendo and how they've changed, their ganes are super approchable for new players.

[โ€“] bastion@feddit.nl 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yes. It's a scalable hobby, and can run from virtually no cost to why-are-you-burning-money. But you can do a lot in gaming with little monetary investment.

There are lots of budget indie games that are lots of fun, and if you find out you like gaming and want to try more fancy titles, you can always upgrade hardware.

Minimal entry: your current pc. Install steam, and buy/try what you like, returning it if it's too slow/doesn't work.

Light entry: get familiar with your pc's ram size, hd/ssd size, cpu speed/type, and graphics card. Use that to ensure your pc can handle the game by looking at the game's minimum requirements.

Medium-heavy entry: Upgrade things.

  • ssd if you don't have one. The difference between that and spinning disks is night and day. If you wished things loaded faster, get this.
  • 8 gb graphics card in the $150 range, amd or nvidia-based. Get this if you want a smoother experience / if you can notice individual frames happening. You don't need the most expensive tech to play most games that are out there.
  • Genuine XBox or PS4/5 controller. These standard controllers are generally pretty solid and durable. $60ish
  • new cpu ($$$, and may not even be an option): most games won't be processor-bound. But some are cpu-heavy. Get this if you really want to upgrade overall, or have a particular title in mind that needs it. Or..
  • Low-mid range gaming computer ($900 ($600-$1500)): wait until you want to do a pc upgrade, and get a low-end gaming computer. I recommend Lenovo LOQ or Legion. Lenovo in general has provided laptops that don't fall apart on me, and that's not something I can say about most computer manufacturers. That said, keep them long enough and you'll have to replace the keyboard - but that's every laptop out there that I've run across.
  • or: go crazy and buy everything all the time at the moment it his the market because it is a game or has "game" written on, near, or associated with it (not recommended)
[โ€“] iii@mander.xyz 3 points 1 week ago

I started recently after a 15 year hiatus.

I chose steamworld dig 2. It's a fun game

[โ€“] Ludrol@szmer.info 3 points 1 week ago

There is a concern about accesability and hidden gamer slang.

First person 3d games can make you motion sick.

There you would need to learn to control a camera.

Red is health, Blue is mana, Yellow is for climbing.

There will be countless stuff that are build upon years of gaming culture.

Try to start with co-op so someone can guide you.

Make a post it note on the monitor with button mappings especially if you play on gamepad.

[โ€“] Mr_Blott@feddit.uk 3 points 1 week ago

If you like phone puzzle games, have you tried Monument Valley?

Stardew Valley

[โ€“] Anticorp@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

There are a lot bad games out there, and not everyone likes every type of game. So try highly rated games from various categories. Just be aware that video gaming consumes a lot of time that you could use for productivity in other areas of your life. I play video games pretty regularly, but I also turn it off when it seems excessive.

[โ€“] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

Sure! Are there any that interest you? There are many genres and types.

[โ€“] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 2 points 1 week ago
[โ€“] communism@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

If you see a game you think you'd enjoy, go for it.

Personally I find that I'm not super into video games as an adult just because I don't have the time, and I don't find them very fun in short bursts. And when I do have the time I always think to myself I'd be better off spending it on a "productive" hobby like programming. That's an entirely personal thing for me, but it may be something you want to consider, ie if you want to learn a hobby that's also considered a real world skill so to speak, and one that could give you products of your hobby you can actually use and enjoy (eg programming, crochet, cooking, woodworking, etcโ€”so creative hobbies).

Also, feel free to pirate a game if you don't know if it's worth the investment, especially since you won't have a reference point of games you do enjoy. I have no ethical quandary with pirating any game, but if you do, you can just buy the game if you like it, and that way you won't waste money on a game you only get 5% of the way through before getting bored.

[โ€“] NeoToasty@kbin.melroy.org 2 points 1 week ago

Something I don't really like seeing when someone asks a question like this, is everyone just jerking someone around with their recommendations.

I would advise first to feel your tastes out, what do you feel like doing? What do you think is worth your time and even money to invest in? Whatever you feel gravitates you, go for it.

[โ€“] eezeebee@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 week ago

Yes it is worth it. The return on gameplay hours for the cost of a game can be incredibly high.

I recommend you start by downloading Steam on a laptop or PC and browse some games, or try some demos. Some games require mouse and keyboard, while others are better with a controller - my preference is a regular Xbox controller, it's plug and play.

[โ€“] bokherif@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Video games used to be good, now most games are just quick cash grabs. I highly recommend old classics if you're planning to get into it.

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[โ€“] Fake4000@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

My advice would be to look into emulators. Old school games do not have any micro transactions and are complete. Plus there is a vast library of consoles and games to go through.

Yes it's absolutely worth getting in to video games, there is huge breadth and choice on what to play, and a huge vibrant community.

Starting place is really what devices do you have? Do you have a laptop or PC? If so the world is your oyster and you will find plenty to play even if it's not very powerful.

If you want something popular, cosy and accessible I'd recommend Stardew Valley. It's cheap for such a great game, plenty of content, great learning curve and a huge wholesome community.

But there is loads of choice - you could play card games or puzzle games on you other devices and explore what's available. PC games offer much more variety and depth compared to a mobile, and is very easy to access - no need to buy a console or hardware.

[โ€“] Sam_Bass@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

If you have a continuous online connection, download Steam. Also look at GoG if you dont want to deal with valves drm

[โ€“] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Everyone has different preferences, so it can be difficult to judge what you may like or dislike. Even in gaming, there are such disparate subcommunities that one subcommunity may not even know of the existence of another. I personally prefer slow paced, artistic, single player games and I can't stand multi-player games, much less competitive ones.

So my answer is there's likely something for you somewhere, but without more information, I wouldn't know how you would begin finding that something

[โ€“] Yerbouti@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago

Casual gamer me would tell you there are amazing short narrative games these days.

[โ€“] latenightnoir@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

It's just like any other hobby, you have to see and decide for yourself! All I can say as a person who's been playing video games for 27 years and loves them for both their mechanics and their artistic potential is that so far it has been time well spent!

To start, i'd first think about what kind of games tempt you most. You have a wide array of genres from which to choose, like cerebral real-time strategy or 4x games (Explore, Expand, Exploit, Exterminate), narrative and player expression centric role-playing games, action-packed shooters, or agile and clever platformers.

Then, you can use storefronts like Steam or Epic and run general searches based on genres - I'd recommend sorting according to top sellers/most purchased, as score-based sorting isn't always reliable.

At the end of it all, however, the most important factor is whatever tempts you in any way. Steam (this is what I use most of the time) offers Demos for a lot of games nowadays, so you should be able to try pretty much whatever tempts you! Be it flashy graphics, an interesting story hook, or just sheer bloodlust, everything is valid!

I'll leave a list of games I think would serve as a gentle introduction to this hobby below - they're also not resource intensive, so you should be able to play them on any consumer laptop (or smartphone, some of them!):

  • Stardew Valley - management-like game, you have to administrate a farm. But there's a lot of extra complexity I won't spoil

  • Cloudpunk - combination of cyberpunk delivery person simulator and role-playing game, I've found it both relaxing and gripping!

  • Cultist Simulator - it's technically a card game, but what you actually do is balance having a socially acceptable life with investigating incomprehensible forces and leading a cult

  • Star Wars: Knights of The Old Republic I and II - these two are meat-and-potatoes role-playing games with really solid stories, well-written and presented characters, a neat progression system which sees you unlocking awesome Force powers and/or other valuable perks, and the combat, I find, is the perfect mix of engaging and lenient

  • Rocket League - this is as a taste of faster-paced action, basic multiplayer interactions, and relatively high-end graphis - it's football with cars, but awesome!

As an extra note, you may notice I've left links from everywhere. That's because you'll have to select a game storefront (it's a whole thing nowadays, but you really don't need to interact with that side of the hobby if you don't want to...). The storefronts share most of their libraries of games, but there are a few exceptions, so it's best to check them all out before sticking with one. Some examples of such:

  • Steam is the most popular and is good, but you can't run games without running Steam, plus it periodically needs to connect to the internet. Things are fairly priced, the community features are nice, the community is ok, frequent sales. They also offer a no-questions full refund if you choose to do so within two hours of play time, so that's a way to try out games without Demos.

  • GOG (Good Old Games) is basically Steam, less meaty. However, the main strongpoint is that, beyond installing the game through their platform, that game then exists as its own independent entity, not requiring any periodic validation through an internet connection (unless the game itself is online), no shady 3rd party software installed alongside the game to "protect it from piracy," etc. The games are as yours as they could possibly be in a digital-only environment.

  • Epic wants to be Steam's direct rival, so their storefront has many of the same features, but it's not as popular within the community. I honestly have no opinion about them.

Other than that, all I can say is try to explore the hobby, check out gaming outlets, watch Lets-Plays on YouTube, and you can always lean on the online community for suggestions and tips! Also applicable to myself!

[โ€“] cobysev@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)
  • Epic wants to be Steam's direct rival, so their storefront has many of the same features, but it's not as popular within the community. I honestly have no opinion about them.

I have an opinion on them. They're a terrible company with anti-gamer friendly policies.

I have no problem with competition. It keeps businesses legit and cheap/reasonable for consumers. Heck, GOG does a great job as a companion storefront with Steam.

Epic Games could have tried to be competitive too and provide a similar or better platform for games. But instead, they wanted to corner the market and steal gamers from Steam, so they started pushing exclusivity contracts with publishers. New games would come to only their storefront for the first year, then release to other PC storefronts after that.

Then they started publishing games themselves, which kept them isolated to their storefront indefinitely. Even game series that were released to other consoles and PC platforms suddenly had a sequel that was stuck on Epic Games. I'm looking at you, Alan Wake II.

Or worse, buying up IPs and removing them from other storefronts, like Fall Guys and Rocket League.

They also tried to pull people in by releasing a new game for free every week (even AAA titles!), which was actually the coolest thing they ever did. But it doesn't excuse all their other anti-gaming practices. If anything, it made me feel dirty using their platform.

I have never given Epic Games a penny of my money and until they decide to be competitive with Steam instead of just stealing the market from them, I will continue to boycott them.

I'm not alone in this mindset. Ubisoft was releasing games exclusively on Epic Games for a while and they've just decided that their newest Assassin's Creed game will release on Steam, due to poor sales on Epic. Also, Alan Wake II had dismal sales because it's locked behind Epic's storefront. So a lot of other gamers aren't willing to put up with Epic Games' BS and their model is crumbling.

Epic is what happens when a corporation pops up expecting to make money off gamers. Steam is what happens when someone who is a gamer themselves and appreciates the gaming experience creates a store for gamers. I have given thousands of dollars to Steam over the years and have a massive library of their games. I only have a few free games on Epic and I won't even install their launcher anymore. As a consumer, I vote with my wallet, and Epic needs to get with the program or go away.

[โ€“] ltxrtquq@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

They also tried to pull people in by releasing a new game for free every week (even AAA titles!), which was actually the coolest thing they ever did.

You're using the past tense, but they're very much still giving away games for free. On a related note for OP, I'm pretty sure amazon prime gives away games for free too, so if you don't know where to start, you can always start with something that doesn't cost you anything (extra, assuming you have prime).

[โ€“] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

They can tell wonderful stories if you pick the right ones. Personally I find Disco Elysium to be particularly good at this.

If you want to start playing video games, you should try easy games like celeste

By "easy" i mean extremely hard, if you play the game you will die thousands of times

[โ€“] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Get a Quest 3! If you're brand new to gaming I think VR is more intuitive than picking up a traditional controller for the first time.

[โ€“] rollmagma@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Right, then play the one or two games on it that don't suck and never touch the thing again.

[โ€“] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Your personal experience isn't everyone's experience. VRChat alone is worth spending some time in (assuming you escape the kids). I know some people that Only play Walkabout Mini Golf, and there's nothing wrong with that. For someone completely new to gaming I think it's a good start. Wish there's been a shitload of new VR games this year.

[โ€“] rollmagma@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

It's great that you like VR and want other people to try it. But when someone asks for a recommendation, you can't just attempt to drag them into your own world like that, c'mon. VR is expensive, cumbersome, needs extra space in the house, has very few games (actual games) worth playing, etc. It's an amazing immersive technology, yes. But a 30yo that never touched a game before? There's very little in terms of gaming on any VR platform for them to experience, instead there's a lot of VRing, which I think misses the point of this thread.

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[โ€“] hogmomma@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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Hogwarts legacy might resonate here IMHO

[โ€“] Hikermick@lemmy.world -2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I quit playing video games in my mid 30's. Pretty much went cold turkey. Why would you want to start now? Plenty of healthier things to do with your time

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