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[–] throbbing_banjo@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Karma-whoring. It's already started with the stupid "upote my can of beans" posts... Dude nobody cares about your internet points, either activity participate or fuck off to Instagram.

[–] Marvin42@feddit.nl 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I absolutely hate the love for revenge violence. Stuff like celebration people running over protestors in their cars because they were forced to stop on the road. Or bleeding out after someone got shot when they robbed a store.

This includes that fact that you can basically guarantee every thread contains at least one comment claiming "play stupid games, win stupid prizes"

[–] FinnFooted@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I haaate "equal rights means equal lefts."

These dudes fantasize about a woman picking a fight with them so they can beat the shit out of one and have it be socially acceptable.

[–] Rengoku@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Ads.

Fuck ads.

[–] Zozano@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Please don't let /c/asklemmy become like /r/askreddit, which had half of the front-page posts being the same sex related questions every month.

"Women of reddit, what non sexual thing that guys so makes you horny?"

"What is the sexiest thing you regret doing?"

"How many cocks have you sucked while your cat judges you while waiting for you to feed it?"

It was bullshit.

[–] holycrap@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Shitty repost bots. Actively ban bots pretending to be humans.

[–] buycurious@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

The “hivemind” ignoring the correct information or even worse, encouraging the wrong information.

Does anyone else remember the whole Boston Bomber fiasco (i.e. We did it, Reddit)?

[–] Chriszz@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

A lot of people would just upvote the first bozo to reply with a confident answer and never bother to check for the full story. Scrolling 3 comments down you’d find someone who actually knows their stuff. I learned to at least read most of the comments before committing any Reddit info to memory as fact.

[–] PostMalort@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Similarly asking for proof getting downvoted to hell. Asking for proof is so important online and pretty much every statement should be able to provide proof

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[–] Moshpotatoes91@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

"Thanks for the gold kind stranger"

[–] Rhoeri@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] xman664@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

So I poured steaming hot Chili on my grandmothers head for not commenting positively on my new suspenders... AITA?

[–] CustodialTeapot@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Bots. Endless bots where you don't know if the comment or post is a real person. Sign ups need a barrier to filter out bots.

[–] Slynk@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Corporate shills.

[–] Smooth@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Can we stop talking about Reddit? Let it go.

/r/MadeMeSmile portrayed toxic positivity which felt out of touch with reality.

"I made my bed today. First time in 14 years 🙂"

  • 45 thousand likes and 2 thousand comments.
[–] meisme@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

"Sir, you have just won the internet" "Thanks for the gold kind stranger" "I too choose this guy's [placeholder]" And the other corny overused reddit lines

[–] LollyActionGinger@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Other Redditors. Can we just be on Lemmy and move the fuck on?

[–] ImportantCat@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Rage bait, Karen videos, violence

[–] CeruleanRuin@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

r/the_donald or anything like it. Kindly fuck off with all of that shit.

[–] TrollTrollrolllol@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] livingina@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

At least they're hidden on their own instances

[–] CeruleanRuin@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

And may they stay that way.

[–] Snowpix@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Good fuckin' riddance.

[–] rob_t_firefly@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Sponsored posts, banner ads, algorithms, and other advertising-industry fuckery.

A reply that's just "r/(some subreddit name)."

A robot trying to sell stolen fan art printed onto t-shirts.

People childishly self-censoring non-sweary words. "Sex" isn't a bad word, but writing "s*x" suggests you probably shouldn't be allowed on social media at your stage of development.

[–] Redonkulation@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

The absolutely childish gaming default posts of "hidden gems" that aren't hidden, "ain't much but it's mine" and stale ass memes. Stuff like that makes my eyes roll. Not just the default gaming sub but it started to creep into most places.

[–] warhammercasey@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I can hope it won’t but I know it’s gonna happen anyway - the chronically online mentality that was everywhere on Reddit.

On reddit it always seemed like a lot of people (or at least the most vocal ones) never actually go outside and have this very idealized and unrealistic view on the world.

[–] Pregnenolone@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

"Came here to say this"

Also, while I will tolerate it, I hope we tone down the doggo speak

[–] absGeekNZ@lemmy.nz 1 points 1 year ago

Just general karma whoring...

[–] Whaler_Shaver@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

AskReddit topics:

"Who is a very popular and esteemed actor but actually is pretty bad at acting?"

"What's a cheap thing that is actually expensive?"

[–] FanciestPants@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Comments that require a, "well, back on Reddit..." explanation. Could include comments about that guy's dead wife. That one kid's broken arms, etc.

[–] riotrick@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago
[–] alvaniss@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago
[–] Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 year ago

DAE

Banana for scale

5/7 with rice

Generic ask Reddit threads

All that shit can go to hell.

[–] DrTeeth@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I’m feeling insecure and shy, please rate my anus.

[–] Jourei@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The "obligatory" jokes, copypasted every time someone writes a certain thing. I would always downvote them. I am thinking about blocking users that continue that here.

[–] Miian@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I'm just tired of the same old jokes. "Uh oh, his shoes fell off, he must be dead."

[–] Sinister_Grape@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

The ragebait fake text message screenshots that plague subs like antiwork.

Wow, your dickhead boss is stupid enough to put all of that in writing and has the exact same style of writing, spelling and grammar as you do? Isn’t that a coincidence!

[–] MiddleWeigh@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Links to Twitter. Never had an acct, the site is horrid, and I will not go.

Realistically, everything we dislike on reddit is pretty much unavoidable once there is a certain number of people, outside of being ran by some capitalist shills, hopefully

[–] tylenol3@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

“Women of Reddit: what’s the sexiest sex you ever sexed (and why)?”

[–] metic@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Ragebait like noahgettheboat, idiotsincars, publicfreakout. It’s the Jerry Springer of the 2020’s.

[–] TheSpookiestUser@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I hope that the mod-user relationship will be healthier here. (Bias, I was a reddit moderator.)

Some reddit mods were crap, this is true. Powermods and sub collectors were real. They did shit up a few communities.

But these people were a very small proportion of all moderators. Most moderators I met were chill, and just wanted to chip in to their respective communities to give back, in a way. Volunteering for internet janitor duty, because no matter how much people use the term as an insult it turns out public spaces need janitors - or they get filled with shit, trash, graffiti (and not the cool kind either, mostly badly drawn swastikas). It's not a position that should be glorified, or anything, because that's weird, but I hope that some semblance of basic respect can be maintained here on Lemmy - both ways, meaning no powermods but also no defaulting to assuming mods suck.

[–] eu8@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

c/Xporn when X is not sexual. Like r/foodporn, r/earthporn, or r/animalporn.

[–] ugh@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Creative writing presented as truth

[–] EyesInTheBoat@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Karma. I feel like that will push Lemmy in a way that isn't healthy.

[–] Burstar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I was going to say 'a community full of really simple questions that should have just been queried via a search engine' (this post is a pleasant exception to what I'm used to ftr), but then I saw what community this was so my final answer will be: Onlyfans ads poorly disguised as relevant material for whatever community.

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[–] Prasaedonium@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I actually liked megathreads, they usually meant big news and I didn't have to read 20 posts about the same thing.

But what I disliked about reddit was when trolls from some subreddits would spam CP to get other subreddits closed

[–] feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

"cool pictures"

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