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I have a sister. I live with her and my parents, we have a good relationship. I am rather a good friend, in previous relationships I was always the one who tried harder. Maybe even too much? I don't know. Being vegan doesn't bother me, I would date such a person if we were a match for each other. Drugs are no go for me, alcohol rather too but maybe from time to time is ok. I like co-op games so if my girlfriend liked to play co-op with me I would be happy. I mostly like sci-fi movies and sci-fi or popular science books, I also like postapo themes . (Books - metro 2033, what if, futu.re and all glukhovsky books, Harari, Elsberg, Dukaj etc.) Let me also copy a comment with which I responded to other people:
I'm studying finance and accounting, my personality is INFP-T. I don't have any special philosophy, unless it's about political views but I don't know if it's a good idea any write about it? I'm rather more of an introvert type, I like to travel from time to time but for know I have limited budget so I only visit locally, my country rather than expensive trips abroad. I think it is one of the things that make me the most happy, when I'm in beauty place alone just with my thoughts. I'm also a bit of tech geek. I'm learning languages, recently started learning German. My aspirations are more of a quiet but also well-paid job, I do not plan a great career. I also plan to start learning to draw but so far it is in the planning zone.
Planning to draw? The only way to get better at drawing is to do it, a lot! Every day.
Living at home is probably not a selling point but it’s probably best to be upfront about it, maybe you’ll find a girl who’s living at home too. Better not to waste somebodies time, or your own, if that’s a big deal to somebody.
If I was you I’d describe your ideal date, maybe it’s a long shot, but if it works it’s a slam dunk. So like, where would you eat out, or take out, which video game would you play, movie would you watch, what beer do you want to drink? Or maybe your ideal date is to get donuts and go to a quiet place in nature and read a book?
Anyway by being honest about yourself, and what you’re looking for, you may not be successful but you won’t waste any bodies time (including your own).