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Might get downvotes for this but Tinder's algorithm is a bit of a hamster wheel. But if you want to keep trying don't let my opinion faze you!
I got my wife through Tinder (I'm a man). I paid for it a few times because I did find it easier to get through the thousands of swipes it takes.
But that's not without literal years of trying and getting very few dates out of it. For men, it takes a long time to find someone that will actually give you a chance because women can be really discerning with how many men are on the app. And from what I've heard from women, there are lots of creeps on there.
Keep trying and it'll work eventually.