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This is a community for bisexuals, their allies, friends, family, anyone curious about us or our community, or just people who want to hang out.

Bisexual means different things to different people, and I'm not going to tell you what it should mean to you. But one thing I will say is that being bisexual does NOT mean being trans-exclusionary. We love no matter what dingles, dongles, or dangles you do or do not have in your pants.

Of course, there are the basic rules. No hate speech, no brigading, no doxing, no homophobia, no transphobia, no sexism, no racism, no illegal material. Rules will be added as needed.

At the moment, we do not have a hard and fast rule over NSFW images or posts, but I will say that this is a community about bisexuality, not for porn. Please don't make me ban NSFW content altogether.

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Trying to be slightly more open but keep some plausible deniability. Its dumb I know

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[–] solivine@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Wear lighter/paler colours if masculine, darker more prominent ones if feminine.

Post Bi memes because "they're funny".

[–] Bicyclejohn@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That might be a bit difficult, everything I wear is pretty dark. Maybe I should get some new trousers

[–] Acamon@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I'd say dark is fine, but you could add a dash of color. That's why jewelery is nice (it doesn't need to be girly), or just wearing bright red socks with your dark clothes.

Basically, if a guy looks "heteronormie" but had some sort of little intresting thing going on, that always gets my interest. Even if a guy isn't actually bi (or gay/queer) the fact that he's willing to take a step outside the "default" makes me think he's probably open minded enough not to be offended, even if he's not actually interested.