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Gardening is great and forces you to care for a thing.
But it's also hard for someone with depression, because you will kill things while you learn, and that can make you feel even more worthless and useless.
THAT SAID. If you try it and actually discover you have an interest in it, it's a lot easier to get past the, "Fuck, I killed another one!" and slide into, "How do I not fucking kill another one?!"
Source: me :/
Aww I wish I could give you a hug
Aww, thanks. It's ok, though. I'm getting a lot better at figuring out how not to kill my plants now and just get sad for a little while when one dies. Mostly. Lol
Start with peas I'd recommend. They grow and produce quickly. Super tasty right off the vine too.