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What are some Must Know tips for dating? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 week ago by OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] UniversalMonk@lemm.ee 0 points 6 days ago

Shut the fuck up about the woes with your ex.

Oh god, I can't tell you how many dates I've been on where the other person goes on and on about their ex. I give them 10 minutes to vent. If they keep talking about it, I find an excuse to cut things short, then let them know that I "didn't feel a connection, but good luck!."