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[โ€“] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 44 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (20 children)

People where I am from call everyone "you guys" - men, women, trans, doesn't matter, everyone is just "you guys" even when it's a woman addressing a group of women.

The literal meaning isn't gender neutral, but in actual practice, it 100% is.

As for "y'all" or "you all", I don't see how it could possibly be interpreted as offensive to any gender.

[โ€“] kittyjynx@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Dude is also situationally gender neutral. Saying "Hey dude" to a trans woman is misgendering her but exclaiming "Yo dude check this out!" or "Duuuude no way" is perfectly acceptable.

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