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[–] socialpankakemix@lemmy.blahaj.zone 31 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

not op, but personally im never opposed so somebody complimenting me as long as it comes across as a genuine compliment (ex: i like your style/outfit/vibe) and not somebody just trying to hit on me or something.

(edit: lol actually i love to be hit on im a slut but shhhhhh)

[–] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

Hey baby, looking fit .. ;)

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm ace and sex-repulsed, so I don't much appreciate getting hit on, but I mostly just hope I get compliments from other cool queers (which usually happens; it's just cishets with their razor sharp focus and katalepsis-esque inability to see).

yeah I always get comfy around queer people then some cis het dude sees that, comes in, and makes everybody uncomfortable, never fails.