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To people who choose not to swear (for non-religious reasons), what is your motivation to be that way ? (lemm.ee)

submitted 2 months ago by red_pigeon@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Did the decision bring any change to your life ?
Do you feel the decision stopped you from expressing something at some point ?

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[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I was once being followed and harassed by a woman. I told her to "stay the fuck out of my life".

Nothing came of it, but when I asked a lawyer about getting a restraining order against her, he told me that she actually had grounds to get an order against me, specifically because I had used the word "fuck" when I said that to her. That word, he said, could be considered evidence in a hearing that I was dangerous to her.

So basically, my primary reason to stop cursing is to avoid triggering special rules (not only legal, but corporate rules as well) that are activated by a person who says those key words.

[–] menemen@lemmy.ml 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Getting a restraining order against someone, because they said“stay the fuck out of my life” is so dumb. Sorry, I had to laugh. Hope you sorted that out and can live your life safely.

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 8 points 2 months ago

I am vastly aware of the irony, believe me