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What happened to "You're welcome!" as a response to "Thank You"? It's not even included in the canned answers on an apple watch. Have we as a society abandoned it? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I hear "No problem" far more often.

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[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 0 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Except “no problem” traditionally means “no problem [despite this situation containing a likely problem]”.

It means the person being thanked has gone outside their set of responsibilities to help you.

Like “Thanks for letting us borrow your spare tire so we could get our car back to town” -> “no problem”.

Here the other person had no responsibility to help with the others’ flat tire, much less lend out a piece of their own safety equipment.

“You’re welcome” is the one which means “It is perfectly expected in our current roles that I would have provided this”.

[–] Pandantic@midwest.social 3 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

And I see it totally opposite. Interesting.

Also, can you cite this “traditionally” you reference?

[–] olympicyes@lemmy.world 0 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I go to DMV. “You need a number to be in this line”. “My mistake. Where do I get this number?” “Over there.” “Oh, I see, thank you.” “You’re welcome.”

[–] Pandantic@midwest.social 2 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Wow, because the DMV uses it? Thanks for the source! Wait, I’ve heard a person at the DMV say “no problem” before…

Also, I was asking the original commenter about the “traditional” use of “no problem”.