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I hear "No problem" far more often.

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[โ€“] ToxicDivinity@hexbear.net 14 points 6 months ago (2 children)

It sounds more old fashioned every year. What does "your welcome" even mean. No problem makes more sense and feels more natural

[โ€“] ped_xing@hexbear.net 15 points 6 months ago (1 children)

You're welcome to ask things like that of me. This is within the realm of stuff I will gladly do for you.

[โ€“] ToxicDivinity@hexbear.net 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Yeah.... I'm not gonna put that kinda message out there I don't want to encourage people

[โ€“] ped_xing@hexbear.net 5 points 6 months ago

I find np a worse message when taken literally. If I even have to write an email, it's at least a little problem. yw allows for a problem you solved for somebody without suggesting that it doesn't come at the expense of other priorities. Both will be interpreted the same way by almost everyone, of course.

[โ€“] original_reader@lemm.ee 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Are you seriously asking?

If so, here the answer: It is usually used as a polite response when someone thanks you for doing something. It's a way to acknowledge their gratitude.

I still hear it a lot. Together with so many alternatives, like "no problem", " happy to help", "don't mention it", " glad to assist", "anytime", "it was nothing", "my pleasure", " sure thing"... and I'm sure there are more.

[โ€“] illi@lemm.ee 5 points 6 months ago

I think OP was asking what it means as in how it came to haventhe meaning you describe. "You are welcome" seems to be a completely arbitrary thing to say and out of context.

Other commenters here explained it's supposed to mean "you are welcome to my assistance" basically - which makes sense, but in the short form it makes little sense if you arenot familiar with the origins of the phrase (as I was until now)