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Yeah that's just... not how that works? People are perfectly capable to keeping to themselves without necessarily being bullied
I figured someone would say this, but.. no? I haven't seen a bully (in real life) since elementary school.
I had a relatively similar experience. Some people were definitely treated like shit, but there's was nearly none of what's classically considered bullying, especially of a physical nature. Im not pretending it was some utopia where everybody got alone, but the vast majority of people were far too busy worrying about their own shit.
Or people were just more mature than you were back in highschool.