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if you don't use facebook, what social media do you use to stay in contact with family? (lemm.ee)

submitted 8 months ago by pelletbucket@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] oxjox@lemmy.ml 38 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

SMS and telephone and IRL.

I haven't used Facebook for over ten years. I was using Instagram for a while but the algorithm makes using it utterly pointless.

Do you really need to be on top of everyone all the time? Give your relationships room to breathe. Allow yourself to have engaging conversations with people to catch up and get to know them and the things that matter most to them. Allow yourself the liberty of not knowing the most ridiculous crap that they choose to share with the world.

Edit: Oh! I have a friend who I turned on to GroupMe a long time ago. He and his family still use it regularly. So, if you're looking for something, give that a look.